It was one of those weeks that had Don and I singing that old Hee-Haw song, “If it weren’t for bad luck, we’d have no luck at all...â€

DEAR PAM: Please remind your readers of the importance of RSVP. My daughter’s wedding is a week away, and I need a number! Several guests have not responded to the invitation; therefore, we have no idea how many will be attending, not to mention what to tell the caterer. — Signed, Anita Number

Don and I were recently flattened by the flu for nine days. It wasn’t as unpleasant as some sicknesses go. Our fridge was decently stocked and we had fresh batteries in the remote and the cold meds kept us nicely loopy. We accepted our physical limitations without much of a fight and slept o…

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There was a time when I didn’t think twice before picking up the phone to call someone. I also remember a time before answering machines, when one HAD to answer the phone to find out who was calling. Everyone had a landline, and there was no such thing as caller ID. My guess is that some rea…

DEAR PAM: Since returning to the office after working remotely for several years, I’ve noticed a degradation of business etiquette. For the benefit of those who may need a bit of a refresher, would you please provide some business etiquette tips to help make the workplace environment better …

“Do you think someone actually lives there?†Don asked as we passed a large, old house with a partially collapsed roof — and collapsed in a way that didn’t look recent. A station wagon was parked in the drive next to a truck. Both vehicles were myriad colors, patchworked together.

DEAR PAM: I get so frustrated when I am speaking with someone, and they continue to look at their phone instead of me. It’s as if what I have to say is not as significant as their phone, and the lack of eye contact is exasperating. Is there a polite way to ask someone to please look at me? I…

While sorting through boxes that have been stored for a decade or more, I ran across journals, articles, and notebooks from when I lived in South ÂÒÂ×ÄÚÉä. Among them was a clipping I had saved from a former Boy Scout, Pierce Vincent Eckhart, talking about a game they would play any time n…