When the Big Beautiful Bill passed, the whining started almost immediately about a work requirement for government benefits for able-bodied adults. I was going to make a case for a strong work ethic, then realized the Big Beautiful Bill was the wrong context.
Living in America should be enough of a reason to be a productive citizen. This is the most awesome country ever, with the most opportunities to be as successful as you are willing to take advantage of what’s available or not.
We raised six kids who are all doing well today with families and careers of their own. Some took longer than the others. And we are extremely proud of all of them. When they turned 18, we did not kick them out and say good luck. But they certainly did not sit around and do nothing.
My dad had a strong work ethic, and so did his dad. We lead by example, showing how, but the "what" is up to the kids to figure out. One key is that it’s human nature to want a purpose in life. But like the "Dirty Jobs" guy says, “Follow opportunity, not passion, but bring it with you.†It works itself out in due time.
Occasionally, a little extra encouragement is necessary right about the same time your patience runs out. Remember: A little shame never hurt anyone.
So here are a few basic nuts-and-bolts ideas to getting and keeping a job:
If you don’t have a job, your job is to get a job. And don’t quit the job you have until you have a new one. Filling out online applications is great but getting your face in the place is better.
If drugs rule your life, your first job is to clean up your act.
Do volunteer work. It can open doors to paying jobs.
If service is below you, leadership is beyond you. So are the big bucks. They don’t hire CEOs.
There is great dignity in work. It’s greater when you figure out your purpose.
"Get a haircut and get a real job." The George Thorogood hit from 1993 breaks it down pretty well. Maybe you are a rock star. Probably not.
College is great if you are guaranteed a six-figure job with your degree. I highly recommend the trades for 90% of everybody.
The military is not a last option, it’s a calling and a privilege. They don’t need you, and 77% of youngsters today don’t qualify anyway.
Your employer doesn’t care about your feelings. Expect that.
A welfare check is for those truly in need as a temporary safety net, not a hammock, not a goal, not a way of life. If it is, see 1 through 9 above.
The bottom line is, if you want it, you will find a way. If you don’t, you will find an excuse. And it doesn’t matter who is responsible for where you are today, you’ll be the only one in the mirror tomorrow morning.
